Stage Two: The Vigil
EOL doula services are divided into 3 sections: The second phase is the vigil. The vigil is the time when a client is “actively dying” – unable to move or speak or make their needs known. The phase can last anywhere from a few hours to a few days or up to a week.
During this time, an EOL doula sits with the client providing support to the individual and their people. One of the main goals during this time is following the prearranged vigil plan as closely as possible. The plan was created with the client and is specific to their wants and needs.
For example, a client may request a chair be placed by the front door so visitors can take a few minutes to sit and collect their thoughts before entering the dying person’s space. By leaving the outside world “at the door”, the visitor brings a calming energy into the space.
When possible, I am present at the client’s time of death.